Etiquette of Salaam(Greeting)

<body topmargin=0 leftmargin=0 marginheight=0 marginwidth=0> <script type="text/javascript"> //OwnerIQ var __oiq_pct = 50; if( __oiq_pct>=100 || Math.floor(Math.random()*100/(100-__oiq_pct)) > 0 ) { var _oiqq = _oiqq || []; _oiqq.push(['oiq_addPageBrand','Lycos']); _oiqq.push(['oiq_addPageCat','Internet > Websites']); _oiqq.push(['oiq_addPageLifecycle','Intend']); _oiqq.push(['oiq_doTag']); (function() { var oiq = document.createElement('script'); oiq.type = 'text/javascript'; oiq.async = true; oiq.src = document.location.protocol + '//px.owneriq.net/stas/s/lycosn.js'; var s = document.getElementsByTagName('script')[0]; s.parentNode.insertBefore(oiq, s); })(); } //Google Analytics var _gaq = _gaq || []; _gaq.push(['_setAccount','UA-21402695-19']); _gaq.push(['_setDomainName','tripod.com']); _gaq.push(['_setCustomVar',1,'member_name','alislaah4',3]); _gaq.push(['_trackPageview']); (function() { var ga = document.createElement('script'); ga.type = 'text/javascript'; ga.async = true; ga.src = ('https:' == document.location.protocol ? 'https://ssl' : 'http://www') + '.google-analytics.com/ga.js'; var s = document.getElementsByTagName('script')[0]; s.parentNode.insertBefore(ga, s); })(); //Lycos Init function getReferrer() { var all= this.document.cookie; if (all== '') return false; var cookie_name = 'REFERRER='; var start = all.lastIndexOf(cookie_name); if (start == -1) return false; start += cookie_name.length; var end = all.indexOf(';', start); if (end == -1) end = all.length; return all.substring(start, end); } function getQuery() { var rfr = getReferrer(); if (rfr == '') return false; var q = extractQuery(rfr, 'yahoo.com', 'p='); if (q) return q; q = extractQuery(rfr, '', 'q='); return q ? q : ""; } function extractQuery(full, site, q_param) { var start = full.lastIndexOf(site); if (start == -1) return false; start = full.lastIndexOf(q_param); if (start == -1) return false; start += q_param.length; var end = full.indexOf('&', start); if (end == -1) end = full.length; return unescape(full.substring(start, end)).split(" ").join("+"); } function generateHref(atag, template){ atag.href=template.replace('_MYURL_', window.location.href.replace('http://', '')).replace('_MYTITLE_','Check%20out%20this%20Tripod%20Member%20site!'); } var lycos_ad = Array(); var lycos_onload_timer; var cm_role = "live"; var cm_host = "tripod.lycos.com"; var cm_taxid = "/memberembedded"; var tripod_member_name = "alislaah4"; var tripod_member_page = "alislaah4/etiquettes/id3.htm"; var tripod_ratings_hash = "1728169647:3825faaf8a9b9b9571db54839ae3a555"; var lycos_ad_category = null; var lycos_ad_remote_addr = "209.202.244.9"; var lycos_ad_www_server = "www.tripod.lycos.com"; var lycos_ad_track_small = ""; var lycos_ad_track_served = ""; var lycos_search_query = getQuery(); </script> <script type="text/javascript" src="https://scripts.lycos.com/catman/init.js"></script> <script type='text/javascript'> var googletag = googletag || {}; googletag.cmd = googletag.cmd || []; (function() { var gads = document.createElement('script'); gads.async = true; gads.type = 'text/javascript'; var useSSL = 'https:' == document.location.protocol; gads.src = (useSSL ? 'https:' : 'http:') + '//www.googletagservices.com/tag/js/gpt.js'; var node = document.getElementsByTagName('script')[0]; node.parentNode.insertBefore(gads, node); })(); </script> <script type='text/javascript'> googletag.cmd.push(function() { googletag.defineSlot('/95963596/TRI_300X250_dfp', [300, 250], 'div-gpt-ad-1450204159126-0').addService(googletag.pubads()); googletag.defineSlot('/95963596/TRI_above_728x90_dfp', [728, 90], 'div-gpt-ad-1450204159126-1').addService(googletag.pubads()); googletag.defineSlot('/95963596/TRI_below_728x90_dfp', [728, 90], 'div-gpt-ad-1450204159126-2').addService(googletag.pubads()); googletag.pubads().enableSingleRequest(); googletag.enableServices(); }); </script> <script type="text/javascript"> (function(isV) { if( !isV ) { return; } var adMgr = new AdManager(); var lycos_prod_set = adMgr.chooseProductSet(); var slots = ["leaderboard", "leaderboard2", "toolbar_image", "toolbar_text", "smallbox", "top_promo", "footer2", "slider"]; var adCat = this.lycos_ad_category; adMgr.setForcedParam('page', (adCat && adCat.dmoz) ? adCat.dmoz : 'member'); if (this.lycos_search_query) { adMgr.setForcedParam("keyword", this.lycos_search_query); } else if(adCat && adCat.find_what) { adMgr.setForcedParam('keyword', adCat.find_what); } for (var s in slots) { var slot = slots[s]; if (adMgr.isSlotAvailable(slot)) { this.lycos_ad[slot] = adMgr.getSlot(slot); } } adMgr.renderHeader(); adMgr.renderFooter(); }((function() { var w = 0, h = 0, minimumThreshold = 300; if (top == self) { return true; } if (typeof(window.innerWidth) == 'number' ) { w = window.innerWidth; h = window.innerHeight; } else if (document.documentElement && (document.documentElement.clientWidth || document.documentElement.clientHeight)) { w = document.documentElement.clientWidth; h = document.documentElement.clientHeight; } else if (document.body && (document.body.clientWidth || document.body.clientHeight)) { w = document.body.clientWidth; h = document.body.clientHeight; } return ((w > minimumThreshold) && (h > minimumThreshold)); }()))); window.onload = function() { var f = document.getElementById("FooterAd"); var b = document.getElementsByTagName("body")[0]; b.appendChild(f); f.style.display = "block"; document.getElementById('lycosFooterAdiFrame').src = '/adm/ad/footerAd.iframe.html'; // DOM Inj Ad (function(isTrellix) { var e = document.createElement('iframe'); e.style.border = '0'; e.style.margin = 0; e.style.display = 'block'; e.style.cssFloat = 'right'; e.style.height = '254px'; e.style.overflow = 'hidden'; e.style.padding = 0; e.style.width = '300px'; var isBlokedByDomain = function( href ) { var blockedDomains = [ "ananyaporn13000.tripod.com", "xxxpornxxx.tripod.com" ]; var flag = false; for( var i=0; i<blockedDomains.length; i++ ) { if( href.search( blockedDomains[ i ] ) >= 0 ) { flag = true; } } return flag; } var getMetaContent = function( metaName ) { var metas = document.getElementsByTagName('meta'); for (i=0; i<metas.length; i++) { if( metas[i].getAttribute("name") == metaName ) { return metas[i].getAttribute("content"); } } return false; } var getCommentNodes = function(regexPattern) { var nodes = {}; var nodesA = []; var preferredNodesList = ['a', 'c', 'b']; (function getNodesThatHaveComments(n, pattern) { if (n.hasChildNodes()) { if (n.tagName === 'IFRAME') { return false; } for (var i = 0; i < n.childNodes.length; i++) { if ((n.childNodes[i].nodeType === 8) && (pattern.test(n.childNodes[i].nodeValue))) { var areaName = pattern.exec(n.childNodes[i].nodeValue)[1]; nodes[areaName] = n; } else if (n.childNodes[i].nodeType === 1) { getNodesThatHaveComments(n.childNodes[i], pattern); } } } }(document.body, regexPattern)); for (var i in preferredNodesList) { if (nodes[preferredNodesList[i]]) { if( isTrellix && nodes[preferredNodesList[i]].parentNode.parentNode.parentNode.parentNode ) { nodesA.push(nodes[preferredNodesList[i]].parentNode.parentNode.parentNode.parentNode); } else { nodesA.push( nodes[preferredNodesList[i]] ); } } } return nodesA; } var properNode = null; var areaNodes = getCommentNodes( new RegExp( '^area Type="area_(\\w+)"' ) ); for (var i = 0; i < areaNodes.length; i++) { var a = parseInt(getComputedStyle(areaNodes[i]).width); if ((a >= 300) && (a <= 400)) { properNode = areaNodes[i]; break; } } var propertyName = getMetaContent("property") || false; if( isTrellix && (properNode) ) { e.src = '/adm/ad/injectAd.iframe.html'; properNode.insertBefore(e, properNode.firstChild); } else if( isTrellix && !( properNode ) ) // Slap the ad eventhought there is no alocated slot { e.src = '/adm/ad/injectAd.iframe.html'; e.style.cssFloat = 'none'; var cdiv = document.createElement('div'); cdiv.style = "width:300px;margin:10px auto;"; cdiv.appendChild( e ); b.insertBefore(cdiv, b.lastChild); } else if( !isBlokedByDomain( location.href ) ) { var injF = document.createElement('iframe'); injF.style.border = '0'; injF.style.margin = 0; injF.style.display = 'block'; injF.style.cssFloat = 'none'; injF.style.height = '254px'; injF.style.overflow = 'hidden'; injF.style.padding = 0; injF.style.width = '300px'; injF.src = '/adm/ad/injectAd.iframe.html'; if( b && ( !isTrellix || ( typeof isTrellix == "undefined" ) ) ) // All other tripod props { var cdiv = document.createElement('div'); cdiv.style = "width:300px;margin:10px auto;"; cdiv.appendChild( injF ); b.insertBefore(cdiv, b.lastChild); } } }( document.isTrellix )); } </script> <div id="tb_container" style="background:#DFDCCF; border-bottom:1px solid #393939; position:relative; z-index:999999999!important">  <style> .adCenterClass{margin:0 auto} </style> <div id="tb_ad" class="adCenterClass" style="display:block!important; overflow:hidden; width:916px;"> <div id="ad_container" style="display:block!important; float:left; width:728px "> <script type="text/javascript"> if (typeof lycos_ad !== "undefined" && "leaderboard" in lycos_ad) { document.write(lycos_ad['leaderboard']); } </script> </div> </div> </div> <script type="text/javascript"> if (typeof lycos_ad !== "undefined" && "slider" in lycos_ad) { document.write(lycos_ad['slider']); } </script>  <div id="FooterAd" style="background:#DFDCCF; border-top:1px solid #393939; clear:both; display:none; width:100%!important; position:relative; z-index:999999!important; height:90px!important"> <div class="adCenterClass" style="display:block!important; overflow:hidden; width:916px;"> <div id="footerAd_container" style="display:block!important; float:left; width:728px"> <iframe id="lycosFooterAdiFrame" style="border:0; display:block; float:left; height:96px; overflow:hidden; padding:0; width:750px"></iframe> </div> </div> </div> <table cellpadding=0 cellspacing=0 border=0 height="100%"><tr> <td valign="top" width=210 BGCOLOR="#99CC99" TEXT="#080000" background="03a8dfc3.jpg"> <bR> <bR> <bR> <div> <B><IMG SRC="075bd500.gif" border=0 width="189" height="80" ALIGN="LEFT" HSPACE="7" VSPACE="0"></b></div> <bR> <bR> <bR> <bR> <div> <B><U>ETIQUETTES</U></b></div> <div> <B>Etiquette of Salaam(Greeting)</b></div> <div> <A HREF="id17.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of Musaafahah(shaking hands)"><U><B>Etiquette of Musaafahah(shaking hands)</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id19.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of a Gathering(Majlis)"><U><B>Etiquette of a Gathering(Majlis)</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id20.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of Speech"><U><B>Etiquette of Speech</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id21.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of Listening"><U><B>Etiquette of Listening</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id22.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of meeting one another(Mulaaqa"><U><B>Etiquette of meeting one another(Mulaaqaat)</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id23.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of the guest"><U><B>Etiquette of the guest</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id24.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of the Host"><U><B>Etiquette of the Host</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id25.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of service to others(Khidmat)"><U><B>Etiquette of service to others(Khidmat)</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id26.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of Hadyah(gift)"><U><B>Etiquette of Hadyah(gift)</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id27.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of Intercession"><U><B>Etiquette of Intercession</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id28.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of training children"><U><B>Etiquette of training children</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id29.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of correspondence"><U><B>Etiquette of correspondence</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id30.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of Istiftaa(Asking a question "><U><B>Etiquette of Istiftaa(Asking a question to obtain the ruling of Shariah)</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id31.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of the Masjid"><U><B>Etiquette of the Masjid</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id32.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of things in general use"><U><B>Etiquette of things in general use</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id33.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of a promise"><U><B>Etiquette of a promise</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id34.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of Qardh(loans)"><U><B>Etiquette of Qardh(loans)</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id35.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of illness,visiting the ill an"><U><B>Etiquette of illness,visiting the ill and consoling the deceased relatives</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id36.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of presenting a request"><U><B>Etiquette of presenting a request</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id37.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of eating"><U><B>Etiquette of eating</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id38.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of Istinjaa"><U><B>Etiquette of Istinjaa</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id39.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette towards Parents"><U><B>Etiquette towards Parents</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id40.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of Elders"><U><B>Etiquette of Elders</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id41.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of the Shaikh"><U><B>Etiquette of the Shaikh</b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id42.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette to be observed by seniors for "><U><B>Etiquette to be observed by seniors for juniors</b></U></A></div> <bR> <div> <A HREF="index.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="ALISLAAH PUBLICATIONS"><U><B><IMG SRC="09386400.gif" border=0 width="134" height="64" ALIGN="BOTTOM" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="0"></b></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="https://members.tripod.com/worldupdates/contentstable/" TARGET="_top" TITLE="https://members.tripod.com/worldupdates/c"><U><B><IMG SRC="06f42350.gif" border=0 width="66" height="53" ALT="Lotus Word Pro 97 Document" ALIGN="LEFT" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="5"></b></U></A><FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#993366" FACE="Times New Roman" ><B> </b></FONT></div> <div> <B> </b><A HREF="https://members.tripod.com/worldupdates/contentstable/" TARGET="_top" TITLE="https://members.tripod.com/worldupdates/c"><U><B>HOME</b></U></A><FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#003366" FACE="Arial" ><B>  </b></FONT></div> <bR> <bR> </td> <td valign="top" BGCOLOR="#CCCC99" TEXT="#080000" background="03b8dfc3.jpg"> <div> <FONT SIZE="5" COLOR="#336666" FACE="Arial" ><B>AL-ISLAAH PUBLICATIONS</b></FONT><A HREF="index.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="ALISLAAH PUBLICATIONS"><U><B><IMG SRC="05032380.gif" border=0 width="50" height="56" ALIGN="LEFT" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="2"></b></U></A><A HREF="id17.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of Musaafahah(shaking hands)"><U><B><IMG SRC="0513c3c0.gif" border=0 width="60" height="60" ALIGN="LEFT" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="2"></b></U></A><A HREF="https://members.tripod.com/worldupdates/contentstable/ " TARGET="_top" TITLE="https://members.tripod.com/worldupdates/c"><U><B><IMG SRC="06e42350.gif" border=0 width="66" height="53" ALT="Lotus Word Pro 97 Document" ALIGN="LEFT" HSPACE="15" VSPACE="5"></b></U></A><FONT SIZE="3" COLOR="#993366" FACE="Times New Roman" > </FONT></div> <div>  <A HREF="https://members.tripod.com/worldupdates/contentstable/" TARGET="_top" TITLE="https://members.tripod.com/worldupdates/c"><U>HOME</U></A><FONT SIZE="3" COLOR="#000000" FACE="Arial" >  </FONT></div> <bR> <bR> <div> Etiquette of Salaam(Greeting)</div> <div> <B>____________________________________________</b></div> <DIV ALIGN="LEFT"></DIV> <div> <B><U>Etiquette of Salaam(Greeting)</U></b></div> <div> (1) In a gathering where a talk or discussion is taking place, the person entering should not draw attention to himself by making salaam. He should not become an interference in the talk. He should lower his gaze and silently sit down. When later the opportunity arises, he may make Salaam.</div> <div> (2) Adopt the practice of mutual Salaam. Whenever meeting a Muslim, say: <FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#990000" FACE="Arial" >ASSALAMU ALAIKUM</FONT>. In reply say: <FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#990000" FACE="Arial" >WA ALAIKUMUS SALAAM</FONT>. All other ways are baseless. </div> <div> (3) When a person conveys the Salaams of another to you, reply: <FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#990000" FACE="Arial" >ALAYHIM WA ALAIKUMS SALAAM</FONT>. This is best. If someone replies: <FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#990000" FACE="Arial" >WA ALAIKUMUS SALAAM</FONT>, it will also suffice.</div> <div> (4) One person of the group making Salaam will be representative of the whole group. His Salaam will be adequate on behalf of the group. Similarly, if from the gathering one person replied, it will suffice on behalf of the whole gathering. </div> <div> (5) The one who initiates the Salaam obtains greater thawaab. </div> <div> (6) When replying to the Salaam of a person, the Salaam should be made verbally, not by a sign of the hand or a nod of the head. </div> <div> (7) Better repayment for a favour will be when the repayment is somewhat more than the act of favour rendered. Thus, the reply should be more than the Salaam (greeting). If <FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#990000" FACE="Arial" >ASSALAMU ALAIKUM </FONT>was said, the better reply will be <FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#990000" FACE="Arial" >WA ALAIKUMUS SALAAM WARAHMATULLAAH</FONT>. If <FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#990000" FACE="Arial" >WA BARAKAA TUHU</FONT> is also added it will be an added merit. </div> <div> (8) It is waajib (obligatory) to reply to the Salaam which is written in a letter. This reply may be in writing or verbally. </div> <div> (9) The Fuqaha have said that in reply to the Salaam which is written in a letter, one may say <FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#990000" FACE="Arial" >ALAIK-UMUS SALAAM</FONT> or even <FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#990000" FACE="Arial" >ASSALAMU ALAIKUM</FONT>. </div> <div> (10) In a letter in which a dua is written, the Salaam should be written first since this is the Sunnat method. </div> <div> (11) Instead of writing or saying the Salaam, to say any other term or to adopt the greeting of any other community is bid'ah. Such an alien greeting is in fact alteration of the Shariah. </div> <div> (12) A person who is engrossed in a conversation or in some work should not be greeted. The new-comer should not intrude with his hand-shaking. Such an act is uncultured and causes distress to others. </div> <div> (<FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#006600" FACE="Arial" >12) Stand outside and proclaim the Salaam, then ask permission in any language. Use such terms which convey the full meaning. However, as far as the Salaam itself is concerned only the terms of the Shariah should be used. </FONT></div> <div> (13) It is Makrooh to greet a person involved in Deeni or natural activity. Thus, to make Salaam to a person eating is Makrooh while it is not Makrooh to engage in conversation while eating. </div> <div> (14) It is not permissible to bow and make Salaam.</div> <div> (15) Before entering a house or any place of privacy it is necessary to seek permission. Do not enter without permission.</div> <div> (17) When answering the call of nature neither reply to anyone's Salaam nor offer Salaam.</div> <div> (18) On promising to convey a person's Salaam, it becomes waajib to do so, otherwise not. </div> <div> (19) When making Salaam to elders adopt a low voice. Do not express yourself in such terms which convey arrogance or disrespect. </div> <bR> <bR> <div> <FONT SIZE="3" COLOR="#336699" FACE="Arial" ><A HREF="index.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="ALISLAAH PUBLICATIONS"><U><IMG SRC="04966340.gif" border=0 width="102" height="52" ALIGN="LEFT" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="2"></U></A></FONT><A HREF="index.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="ALISLAAH PUBLICATIONS"><U><B><IMG SRC="05032380.gif" border=0 width="50" height="56" ALIGN="LEFT" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="2"></b></U></A><A HREF="id17.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Etiquette of Musaafahah(shaking hands)"><U><B><IMG SRC="0513c3c0.gif" border=0 width="60" height="60" ALIGN="LEFT" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="2"></b></U></A><A HREF="https://members.tripod.com/worldupdates/contentstable/" TARGET="_top" TITLE="https://members.tripod.com/worldupdates/c"><U><B><IMG SRC="06f42350.gif" border=0 width="66" height="53" ALT="Lotus Word Pro 97 Document" ALIGN="LEFT" HSPACE="0" VSPACE="5"></b></U></A><FONT SIZE="3" COLOR="#993366" FACE="Times New Roman" > </FONT></div> <div>  <A HREF="https://members.tripod.com/worldupdates/contentstable/" TARGET="_top" TITLE="https://members.tripod.com/worldupdates/c"><U>HOME</U></A><FONT SIZE="3" COLOR="#000000" FACE="Arial" >  </FONT></div> <bR> <bR> </td> </tr></table></body>